The problem with relatives is that when the girls 'asks' for stuff, they actually gave them. Not because they are cousins or what but well, kids being kids are very direct. But from our point or view, it is not a nice thing since they relative have no choice but to give, and put up a happy face at the same time. We all experience this one time or another, right?
I am not sure about this but I just don't like the feeling of putting a person into a spot. maybe I am a bit too sensitive but then again, this is a very touchy subject. OK, so I am not going to talk much about it further.